Meditation ~ Choosing Sacrifice

Today, I chose to sacrifice something that wasn’t working for an opportunity to align more fully with my life’s objective. I am reminded, that what I attach to and hold on to today becomes my dream of tomorrow. Therefore, it is vital that I hold only that which will fulfill my dream of tomorrow, in doing so, I am able to let go of all that may inhibit my goal. As I deny myself today’s desire, sacrificing to a higher vision, then the dream of tomorrow will thrive.


“Wisdom is the inspiration of self-sacrifice. It is not the desire to have, to own, or to posses. This, in simplest terms, is selfishness driven by self-interest. Wisdom is the understanding to be owned and to be one with The Wisdom of the Life Divine Itself.”

Goswami Kriyananda

Meditation ~ Confidence

An Act of Confidence

Self-confidence is an inner trust that is completely void of arrogance or superiority. It does not reveal itself through seeking or pretending to be something other than what one is; one can only truly express one self as they are. Self-confidence is attained when we validate to ourselves that we can, and do, align our inner knowing with our actions inthe world. Self-confidence does not seek approval or recognition. Doubt prevails when we fail to act in alignment with our inner wisdom.

Recall for a moment an image of someone you have idolized. You may recollect a feeling of admiration and respect for the ease and grace that flows as one demonstrates skillful means and actualizes their dreams with confidence. If you are able to identify this trait in another, then subconsciously you are communicating with this ability within yourself. Attuning to this faculty produces an inner potential to emulate that same behavior and removes the veil of separation between our conditioned perception and our ability to realize it in action.

Connection occurs when we merge thought with action and balance our being and doing (non-action and action). This space between intuitive knowing and movement is ambiguous yet remains actively passive. Wei Wu Wei is a Taoist term that expresses the concept of “effortlessly doing”. Any action without action requires preparation for what is to come and trusting that we will know how to proceed as life presents itself. Sheer force creates disorder, while ambivalence results in stagnation. Being present, knowing one’s purpose, and listening to inner wisdom must guide each step. Being prepared, adhering to the goal, and making choices that nourish that goal, gives rise to self-confidence.

Following our sense of knowing aligns our inner visions with outer choices and creates an opportunity to act in confidence. Being present with our knowing prepares us for our next action. As we move forward in synthesized thought and action, we learn to trust in our ability and, ultimately, become able to sincerely and innately express an act of confidence.

Daily Reflections

Ask yourself. . .

What choices do I make that oppose my inner knowing?

When do I diminish my self-confidence by doubting my ability?

How can I learn to trust my inner wisdom?

Reading Room ~ Confidence Quotes

“Self -confidence is being prepared.” ~ Unknown Author

“Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” ~ Malcom S. Forbes

“Self-confidence is the memory of success.” ~ Author Unknown

“Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.” ~ E.E. Cummings

Kriya ~ Confidence

Reflecting Confidence

Each morning take 3-5 minutes to reflect upon your inner knowing. In a quiet room, close your eyes and ask for inner wisdom to surface into your awareness. Invite this awareness to guide you into action. Know that you can trust your ability and that you have all that is required to take each step. After a few moments of silence, write down any insights, reflecting more deeply. As you move through the day, be confident in these reflections and do your best to honor your inner knowing.

Library of Terms

A

Ajna ~ [Sanskrit] The third eye (chakra). Located in mid-forehead.

Akasha ~ [Sanskrit] Primordial space beyond description. Ether. One of the five elements, the others being earth, water, fire, and air.

Alchemy ~ Transforming the chemistry of nature.  Esoterically speaking, transforming thought patterns to shift one’s way of being and experiencing life.

Amrit ~ [Sanskrit] Nectar.

Anahata ~ [Sanskrit] The heart chakra. Root of all emotions and associated with the inner sounds that practitioners and others hear on occasion.

Ananda ~ [Sanskrit] Bliss.

Asana ~ [Sanskrit] Pose. Usually a position taken in Hatha Yoga.

Ashram: A gathering place where spiritual disciplines are taught and practiced.

Asthanga ~ [Sanskrit] The eight-fold path of meditation and yoga.

Atman: [Sanskrit] Soul.

Aura: That visible, non-physical, area around people, plants, animals, trees, and inanimate objects that sometimes manifests colors.

B

Bardo ~ [Tibetan] “in-between state.” Most often refers to the state between death and rebirth, but it can refer to any intermediate state.

Bandha ~ [Sanskrit] Bind or “lock.” Refers to muscular locks in yoga.

Bhakti Yoga ~ The path of devotion. One of the four classic paths of yoga.

Bindu ~ [Sanskrit] Sacred point (through which om manifests).

Buddha ~ Enlightened one.

C

Ceremony ~ A formal act or set of acts performed as prescribed by ritual or custom.

Chakra ~  [Sanskrit] Subtle energy centers throughout the body. Literally means circle or wheel.

Chitta ~ [Sanskrit] Memory. Do not confuse with “citta.”

Chit ~ [Sanskrit] Consciousness.

D

Dana ~ Gratitude offering.

Dharana ~ [Sanskrit] contemplation of self.

Dharma ~ [Sanskrit] Spiritual teachings. Correct action in accordance with your spiritual nature. Also the spiritual path itself.

Dhyana ~ [Sanskrit] meditation.

Discipline ~ a method of practice, or a branch of knowledge

Disciple ~ a student.

E

Eightfold Path ~ They are right view, right thought, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, and right concentration (also the fourth Noble Truth).

F

G

Guna[s] ~ Containing three qualities – “rajasic,” “tamasic,” and “sattvic.”

Guru ~ Spiritual teacher. Spiritual guide.

H

Hatha Yoga ~ A yoga designed to strengthen and heal the physical body.

I

Ida ~ [Sanskrit] The main lunar nadi (energy channel).

Ishta ~ [Sanskrit]

Ishwara ~ [Sanskrit]

J

Japa ~ [Sanskrit] mantric repetition (usually including one of the names of God).

Jnana Yoga ~ The wisdom path. One of the four classic paths of yoga.

K

Karika ~ [Sanskrit] A commentary or a philosophical, grammatical work in concise statements.

Karma ~ [Sanskrit] Literally “action.” The law of cause and effect, most particularly referring to the consequence of an individual’s thoughts, words, and actions modified by their intentions.

Karma Yoga ~ The path of good deeds. One of the four classic paths of yoga.

Kriya ~  To do.  An action.  Often associated with cleansing and purifying the mind.

Kumbhaka ~ Vase breathing (assisting practice through bhandas and retention).

Kundalini ~ [Sanskrit] The divine creative power of the universe.

L

Language ~ Communication of thoughts and feelings through a system of arbitrary signals, such as voice sounds, gestures, or written symbols.

M

Mantra ~ Sacred syllable(s) used in meditation.

Manas ~ [Sanskrit] Mind.

Manipura ~ Solar plexus chakra.

Mantra ~ [Sanskrit] Sacred phrase often used in practice, usually repetitively.

Meditation
~ Focus of the mind on a subject, a subject relating to the higher centers.

Mindfulness ~ Developing awareness through purposeful attention.

Muladhara ~ [Sanskrit] Base chakra located at the perineum.

Moksha ~ Liberation.

Mouna ~ Silence.

Mudra ~ Seal. Positioning of the hand and fingers to augment spiritual practice

Mula Bandha ~ Root lock.

N

Nada ~ The four stages of sound.

Nadi ~ [Sanskrit] The channels which connect the primary, secondary, and tertiary chakras within the body.

Namaste ~ [Sanskrit] literally “I bow to the divine in you.” Done as described in gassho entry.

Nirvana ~ [Sanskrit] To go beyond all suffering.

O

Om ~ [Aum] The sacred beginning sound of our spectrum. Amen.

P

Pingala ~ The main solar nadi. Referenced to the sympathetic system.

Practice ~

Prajna ~ Transcendental wisdom.

Prakriti ~ [Sanskrit] “That which gives shape.” At the physical level, body and mind.

Prana ~ [Sanskrit] The vital energy.

Pranayama ~ [Sanskrit] Breath exercises with spiritual intentions.

Pratyahara ~ [Sanskrit] Turning the attention from the outer world to the inner world.

Prayer ~ A spiritual practice of communicating with a deity or Divine.

Prem ~ Divine Love.

Proclivity ~ a natural inclination or propensity.

Purusha ~ [Sanskrit] Spirit. The indwelling witness.

Q

R

Raja Yoga ~ The “kingly” path, which includes the other yogic disciplines including many that deal with training body, energy, and mind. One of the four classical paths of yoga.

Rajasic ~ One of the three “gunas.” Steeped in activity.

Rita ~ the natural order of life.

Ritual ~ a customary observance or practice.

S

Samadhi ~ [Sanskrit] Deep meditative state with one-pointed mind.

Sadhana ~ [Sanskrit] Spiritual path. Spiritual practice. Spiritual discipline[s].

Sahasrara ~ The crown chakra.

Samaya ~ [Sanskrit] Vow. Commitment.

Samsara ~ [Sanskrit] .  The bondage of life, death and rebirth.

Samskara ~ Impressions created by previous actions and thoughts. Proclivity.

Samyama ~ Combined simultaneous practice of Dharana (concentration, intent), Dhyana (contemplation) & Samadhi (unity). A tool to receive deeper knowledge of qualities of the object. It is a catchall term summarizing the process of psychological absorption in the object of meditation.

Sangha ~ A spiritual community following the same path.

Sat (Satya) ~ [Sanskrit] Truth.

Satori ~ Flash of insight, a revelation.  To think a thought you’ve not thought before.

Sattvic ~ One of the three gunas. Characterized by peacefulness, vitality, and relaxed attention.

Shakti ~ [Sanskrit] The active manifest power that creates the universe.

Shastra ~ [Sanskrit] Science.  A body of knowledge; a sacred text or teaching.

Shiva ~ [Sanskrit] One of the principal Hindu deities, worshiped as the destroyer and restorer of worlds and in numerous other forms. Shiva is often conceived as a member of the triad also including Brahma and Vishnu.

Siddhi[s] ~ [Sanskrit] Special abilities or powers.

Six Schools of Indian Philosophy: The six doctrines of orthodox Indian philosophy accepting the authority of the Vedas and therefore considered part of Hinduism.

1. Mimamsa: the School of Interpretation, largely focused on the “action part” or first half of the Vedas.
2. Vedanta: the School of Knowledge, largely focused on the second half of the Vedas.
3. Sankhya: the School of Theoretical Knowledge.
4. Yoga: the School of the Discipline of Achieving Liberation.
5. Nyaya: the School of Logic.
6. Vaishesika: the School of Pluralistic Metaphysics.

Spiritual ~ {spirituality}

Sunyata ~ Emptiness.

Sushumna ~ The central channel which is located near the spine (nonphysical).

Sutra[s] ~ [Sanskrit] Rules, guidelines of life. Teachings that are supposed to have originated with the Buddha Shakyamuni and are based on renunciation. Literally “thread.” So these scriptures are outlines to expand upon.

Svadhisthana: [Sanskrit] Sacral chakra.

Swami ~ Teacher

T

Tamasic ~ One of the three “gunas.” Characterized by slothfulness and lethargy.

Tantra[s] ~ [Sanskrit] Transformational teachings of the Buddhas referencing human energies, usually making use of both sound and light.

Tattva ~ [Sanskrit] Principle. One of the laws of the universe.

Three Gunas ~ “Rajasic,” “Sattvic,” and “Tamasic.”

Truth ~

U

Upanishad ~ Scriptures that are part of the Vedas. (Literally means, at the feet of the guru- the teacher.)

V

Vedanta ~ A complete path, one of six classical systems of Indian philosophy.

Vedas ~ The revealed knowledge which constitute the basic scriptures of the Hindus.

Vidya ~ [Sanskrit] View. Spiritual knowledge. Refer to “rigpa.”

Vishuddhi ~ [Sanskrit] Throat chakra.

Vrtti ~ [Sanskrit] Thought. Fluctuation of the mind.

Vritti Nirodha ~

W

X

Y

Yoga ~ To yoke, to unify.

Z

Meditation ~ So Simple?

Is It Really So Simple?

If so, then why does it feel like, at times, I need a bulldozer to agitate the barriers I’ve created? Quite simply, meditation can and does chip away at the fortress of conditioning.

I recently remembered how grateful I am for my meditation practice. It has not only saved me from having to experience a full on bulldozer, but it continues to transform my life in numerous subtle ways. So much so, that I found myself sharing with several people the impact my practice has had on my life and how meditation is the single most important practice of my life. Well, it’s true. . . I can’t imagine where I would be without and I don’t ever want to be.

The few brief moments of awakening I’ve had can be described by Rinpoche in a quote I recently read in the Tibetan Book of Living and Dying.

“It is simply your flawless, present awareness, cognizant and empty, naked and awake.”

Sogyal Rinpoche describes meditation like this:

“In the spaciousness of meditation, you can view your thoughts and emotions with a totally unbiased attitude. When your attitude changes, then the whole atmosphere of your mind changes, even the very nature of your thoughts and emotions. When you become more agreeable, then they do; if you have no difficulty with them, they will have no difficulty with you either.”

Meditation ~ Acceptance

The Resolve of Acceptance

As we move through an asana in hatha yoga or any other activity in our daily life, our mind is confronted with a choice to accept the state of our body and being, or to reject it. Our minds are well practiced at mediating situations in an attempt to create and anticipate an ideal outcome or scenario. For instance, one’s mind may get frustrated moving in and out of a yoga pose, or through some other routine of life, because in our mind’s eye, we feel we’re not doing it right. In Reality, however, we are exactly where we need to be – it requires no reaction or explanation. Why then do we allow the mind to create these doubts? Why do we invite it to identify a reason to question, without accepting the true nature and essence of what is present?

Acceptance does not mean giving in or giving up, but rather a simple acknowledgment of the moment. It is a willingness to be exactly where you are without attempting to change it through your minds lens. When you realize that you can be where you are with ease, then you also realize that you can also be who you are with ease, resolving all inner conflict.

When we are able to accept the simple movements of our daily life, we begin to accept ourselves on a deeper, more intimate level. This deep acknowledgment of truth within ourselves fosters an inherent approval for all those who surround us. Conflict is a choice and a state of mind; acceptance is resolution and a state of being. Be at peace with who and what you are, with full acceptance, and the garden of life will open into a playground of contentment.

Daily Reflections

Ask yourself. . .

What aspects of my daily life require my acceptance?

How can I acknowledge my daily state of being without allowing my mind to interrupt with self-doubt?

What am I trying to change in an attempt to deny what is present?

Reading Room ~ Acceptance Quotes

“We cannot change anything until we accept it.” ~ Carl Jung

“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life Is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~ Joan Didion

“Our entire life consists ultimately in accepting ourselves as we are.” ~ Jean Anouilh

“Listening is a form of accepting.” ~ Stella Terill Mann

Kriya ~ Acceptance

Listening with Acceptance

Take a few minutes each morning before you begin your day to check in and listen to what your body has to say. In a seated position, close your eyes and begin to follow the rhythm of your breath. Ask your body what it needs today and simply listen to the reply as it comes to mind. Do not judge it, simply observe. Note if your mind begins to change what you first heard. As you move through your day, do your best to acknowledge the needs of your body with full acceptance.

Meditation ~ Listening

One thousand days could pass before we realize – that we’ve known all along.

When we listen and accept, what we know today, by simply being honest with ourselves, our inner truth is revealed. Listening to the wisdom of the body and the heart of our soul will secure our needs of tomorrow.

It is not always an easy task to honor our inner wisdom, but as we learn to accept truth as it is, rather than as we want it to be, we realize that life is indeed an unending gift.

“Wisdom is so kind and wise
that wherever you may look
you can learn something about God.

Why would not
the omnipresent
teach that way?”
St. Catherine of Siena